Hair style

My current hair style is spikey and I love this kind of hairstyle. But often people in my department face me and commenting about my hairstyle. Sadly said, one of superior commenting my hairstyle as I'm a circus clown. Come on, respect other people right to choose their image and style. That includes their hair, dress and also their rides. I've been raised by my late father it was rude to commenting or making fun of other people appearances. I am never commenting or questioning other people about how they dress and or telling them how smelly is your armpit or your had a bad breath or your mole is so big that look like a house. Or asking why you shave your hair or why you wearing that dress. Never to that because sometime you will upset other people.
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Hampir setiap hari aku ditegur oleh staf aku (bukan semua) dengan statement "uuui, tegak rambut...". Bukankah elok kalau bagi salam daripada kau mengur tentang diri seseorang atau fesyennya atau imejnya. Malah ada jugak superior aku yang menegur kenapa gemuk sangat awak ni. Kenapa pulak nak cakap macam itu, mak ayah tak ajar adab ke? Adakah beradab namanya jika kita bertemu dengan seseorang, kemudian kata-kata yang kita lontarkan adalah "Eh, Eh.. gemuknya kau." atau "Makin gemuk kau aku tengok..."

Ramai yang beranggapan jika kita menegur tentang fizikal seseorang itu, adalah tanda kita rapat dan ambil berat degan seseorang itu. Honestly said, that is very stupid statement I ever heard. Kalau orang yang tua buat macam tu, maka bodohlah orang tua itu. Nenek aku yang mulut kecoh pun tak tegur orang macam tu. Anyway, umat melayu perlu belajar mengenai teknik menghormati orang lain daripada ketamadunan barat. Malah banyak asas kejiranan dan hubungan sesama manusia berdasarkan Islam lebih dipraktikkan oleh umat bukan Islam daripada orang Islam sendiri.

Categories: Human Value Issues